Title: True love does not exist....
Wednesday, February 11, 2009 @ 4:28 AM
I found this at somoene's blog. He gave a pretty long answer to all the ques, so i guess i shld do the same. It's only two ques.Do you believe in true love?Wait, i didnt c tat ques in his blog! (Am i blind) Ok, this is so hard to elaborate. I dun believe in true love. It is nv fair in any relationships. You know it's never fifty-fifty in a relationship. It's always seventy-thirty, or sixty-forty. Someone falls in love first. Someone puts someone else up on a pedestal. Someone works very hard to keep things rolling smoothly; someone else sails along for the ride. Find this famaliar? Haha.. Well, this is not surprising some of the affairs we witness in our society today are most often than not based directly/or indirectly on physical appearances and/or sexual attraction, and have lacked that strong feeling called love; which comprises yearning for each other, sharing, laughing together and being life companions of each other, forever being friends. These are some of the attributes missing in some of our marriages today. I think in most cases what we have in our societies, is the husband and wife caught in the trap of "farz" and marriage is needed to be socially acceptable and they basically just get fed up of each other within first 2-3 years. After that its just same old life and its responsibilities However, today, what you find is that most of the couples come to know they are in love only when they start missing each other, like if one of them goes out of station for a year and they wept for one another (a nice proof to their minds that they are in love) and they think it just "happened" to them-they never knew it before. That is not love, that is just missing and after a while you will be fine with that. If it were love, it should exist for all time.
Again, some couples just start pretending to themselves that they are in love or like modify some other feeling(s) as love. I think there are a lot of other feelings which seem to be close to love but they are not, just misspelled as "love" . And above all, if a "pure" thing as true love is to exist, then first it has to be far far away from sexual attraction/physical appearance and second it has to be "forever". In conclusion, ppl, pls dun be so naive anymore, come on, stop cheating urself, there is no such thing as true love. If u chose to believe in true love, there is nth i can do.I elaborate too much alr. I shall do the next ques tmr.http://www.americanchronicle.com/articles/view/13342 ( i got some info from there)
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